The days of meeting somebody in the pub, club or out and about are slowly becoming a thing of the past. We now find ourselves in a new world, searching for love and companionship in different ways. On TV, in magazines and on social media we find ourselves being groomed by the power of advertising, dragging our subconscious minds into the potentially dangerous world of online dating and dating apps.
They portray the beautiful images that we crave but offer no protection to us. The industry predicted global revenue is now set to reach £2.578 billion by the end of 2022, a phenomenal amount of money. So it’s not surprising and yet incredibly sad that none of the dangers are addressed by the already mega rich companies within this marketplace. Sadly, their focus is soundly set on your money, by manipulating your emotions, and your subconscious minds into you making decisions with your heart and not your head - they are incredibly talented and clever at doing this. The dangers attached with exploring these options financially, physically and mentally can leave us feeling unbelievably exposed emotionally, and in most cases leads to us losing faith in the process and an overall feeling of hopelessness with our search to find the one.
The new number 1 show on Netflix at the moment – Tinder Swindler, exposes the dangers in an incredibly stark and honest way, leaving us in no doubt that it really is an incredible gamble that we take every time we upload our details, photo’s and invite a complete stranger into our lives with no knowledge of who they are, what their past hides, and their financial standing – if we stopped and actually thought about it and researched it, we would never leave ourselves so incredibly open and vulnerable to these talented scammers. Shimon Hayut conned and swindled an estimated $10 million. After being convicted in Finland in 2015 and serving 2 years in prison he then took an alias name, Simon Leviev and posed as the son of a wealthy diamond magnate, Lev Leviev. He then went on to continue his pursuit of wealthy, vulnerable women. He was again arrested and imprisoned in his homeland of Israel. After being sentenced to 15 months, he only served 5 months and is now free to carry on with his shocking and disturbing exploitation of women.
Thankfully what we are now starting to see is the resurgence in the once deemed old fashioned business of matchmaking. With companies looking to fight back against the unscrupulous, mega rich online businesses, and provide a healthy, happy environment in which to have a safe opportunity to find love. The problem is the saturation and vast financial investment of these companies within the marketplace often means that sadly, in most cases, people have already been hurt or taken advantage of in one way or another before reaching out to a personal introduction company. The benefits of joining a reputable personal matchmaking service are unquantifiable. Firstly, the background checks of residency, financial standing, solvency, protects your own finances and safety, which has been shockingly ignored for far too long. Secondly, having your own personal matchmaker to help guide, coach, and support you through your journey is invaluable, giving you the reassurance and comfort that you are not travelling through the process alone.
Their insight into personal introductions is second to none, opening our minds to look for love in places we’d previously ignored. I think we can all have tick boxes and expectations as to the person we think we would like to be with, this approach not only limits our choices of potential partners but also could mean we miss out on our chance to find love. An open mind and open heart are key to having a successful journey with your matchmaker and gives you far more chance to find love – after all, sometimes opposites do indeed attract.
So, lets break away from the dangers of online dating and filling the unscrupulous owners of these already super rich companies and look instead to a professional personal introductions or personal matchmaking company. Where you will find, no algorithms, no false identities, no catfishing. Instead you will be dealing with a real person who will be with you all the way on your journey, providing you with a safe and comforting environment, and in doing so, giving you the very best opportunity to find love.
Well at Matchmakers Dating we’d love to help. Our Membership Advisory team will gladly talk though your queries and answer any questions you may have, as to how this works and how you could benefit from working with a personal matchmaker. Initial enquiries are always free to make and there is never any obligation or compulsion to buy. You can reach out to us at our expense on 0800 644 4130 or complete our contact form and we will get back to you within 24 hours, it could be the start of something really special for you.
Once we have discussed and understand your specific requirements, we will be able to recommend a suitable, tailor-made membership package with bespoke fees for you.
If you are seeking an elite matchmaking consultancy service where the exeptional is distinguished from merely the very good, please get in touch for a confidential consultation.
