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How Our Matchmaking System Works

Our Personal Matchmaking service has been creating happy couples since 2005.

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How Our <span>Matchmaking System</span> Works

How Our Matchmaking System Works

As professional matchmakers, we make it our business to understand you and what you are looking for in a future partner. When you first enquire, we will want to know something about you and your personal situation as well as the sort of person you are hoping to meet. We are happy to talk through how we work and to answer any questions you have about our personal matchmaking service. We will explain the various membership options available so that you can consider which package might best suit your needs. Additionally, we can supply information over email for you to read through in your own time. Our initial consultations are always completely free and without obligation.

Becoming a Member of Our Matchmaking Service

To ensure everyone is joining for genuine purposes, all new members are asked to provide proof of ID, age and address, as well as two recently taken photographs, (which we can take for you, or you can provide). Background checks are fulfilled, which include checking residency details and for any reported involvement in fraud or financial crime. This is very different to online dating, where identities, photographs, age and other important details will typically go unchallenged.

We will arrange your personal matchmaking consultation, which is typically over a video call, but might also be a face-to-face meeting in your home, at a convenient location or at our offices in Warwickshire. Your consultation is a friendly, relaxed and in-depth conversation with one of our experienced Membership Advisers or Professional Matchmakers, through which we will get to know a lot more about you. We will also discuss your partner preferences in greater detail in this consultation. We then draw up a detailed profile of you for your approval, including your photographs. Once you are happy with your profile, your professional matchmaker will be in touch for your welcome call and will begin searching for your first match.

Memberships provide up to 12 months of a personal matchmaking service, to help you find the one you seek.

Most of our client base is from professional, academic or business backgrounds. They are investing in their future happiness by using our executive matchmaking service, rather than leaving things to chance meetings or being open to all of the uncertainties of internet dating.

Becoming a Member of Our Matchmaking Service

To ensure everyone is joining for genuine purposes, all new members are asked to provide proof of ID, age and address, as well as two recently taken photographs, (which we can take for you, or you can provide). Background checks are fulfilled, which include checking residency details and for any reported involvement in fraud or financial crime. This is very different to online dating, where identities, photographs, age and other important details will typically go unchallenged.

We will arrange your personal matchmaking consultation, which is typically over a video call, but might also be a face-to-face meeting in your home, at a convenient location or at our offices in Warwickshire. Your consultation is a friendly, relaxed and in-depth conversation with one of our experienced Membership Advisers or Professional Matchmakers, through which we will get to know a lot more about you. We will also discuss your partner preferences in greater detail in this consultation. We then draw up a detailed profile of you for your approval, including your photographs. Once you are happy with your profile, your professional matchmaker will be in touch for your welcome call and will begin searching for your first match.

Memberships provide up to 12 months of a personal matchmaking service, to help you find the one you seek.

Most of our client base is from professional, academic or business backgrounds. They are investing in their future happiness by using our executive matchmaking service, rather than leaving things to chance meetings or being open to all of the uncertainties of internet dating.

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"I wanted to update you about how it has been going between ‘D’ and I over the past few months. I am very grateful to have met ‘D’. I really like him and I find him very easy to talk to. I have found ‘D’ to be very caring and intelligent. We usually speak to each other on the phone twice a week or meet up once a week. As we don’t live too far away from each other, it has been easy to find places to meet up that are easy for us both to get to."

"Our client was really pleased with his dating coaching session and said that he thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you. Fingers crossed that all works out for him."

"Dear Karen, Thank you for being so understanding …your help was truly appreciated"

"Hi Karen, Thank you for your email. I had very good feedback from our client. You made a real difference to her life"

"Karen helped me be clear on what type of man and relationship could suit my busy life and juggling teenagers and a job ! Her perceptive questions and tips improved my dating, and how I decide who to date! I now allow myself to see Dating as Fun, not a chore. I have a choice now, and the pressure is off!! I look forward positively to meeting new men, having a fun date, and possibly look forward to a long term meaningful relationship."

Dating Safely

Why Join Our Exclusive Dating Agency?

Dating others through matchmaking services provides far greater personal security and privacy than if meeting others through online dating. You will also have the help and support of a personal matchmaker throughout your membership; a trained professional who really knows and understands dating.

We enforce our Client Code of Conduct: We expect all members to conduct themselves at all times in a courteous and considerate way in their dealings with other members and with the Matchmaking Team.

We are members of the Dating Agency Association, (the DAA), and abide by their Code of Practice. Dating safely is the highest priority of the DAA, which insists that all member agencies work to the DAA Dating Safely Guidelines.

We recommend the following basic safety precautions for anyone meeting someone for a first date:

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Do not give the details of your home address for any reason, and ideally, only share your mobile rather than a landline number, (we only pass on your contact number with your approval).

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Arrange to use your own or public transport when meeting someone for the first time, avoid accepting transport provided by your date.

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Ensure you are meeting somewhere away from your home and with other people around, such as a café or bar, rather than any isolated location.

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If someone we have introduced you to has been discourteous, please let us know about it. Member’s feedback is always welcome, it helps us to maintain a good service to our clients.

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It’s best to tell a friend– let them know where you are going and at what time you have arranged to meet someone new.

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Dating fraud is common online. Be cautious: if asked for money or bank details, it's a red flag. Never share financial info.

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Your Dating Coach

Our Dating Coach, Karen Perkins, who has been working with us since 2014. Karen has helped many members to get the very most from their membership with us. We know that the world of dating can be daunting, particularly after a relationship has broken down or when it has been some time since someone was last searching for a new partner. Sometimes we hear dating described as ‘the dating jungle’ and working with a Dating Coach can be very useful in helping to best navigate your journey towards finding the right partner. Karen is an accredited Life-coach; she is very approachable and nonjudgmental and is able and keen to help. Karen has a wealth of experience in the dating marketplace and has some vital pointers and advice that can help you to achieve dating success. Ask for more information from our Membership Adviser or your Personal Matchmaker if you are interested in dating coaching.

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Our Backroom Team

With a very well-established and growing membership base, we have the largest team of dedicated Personal Matchmakers within the UK, all of whom are extremely passionate about what they do. Our dating professionals are eager to get to know their clients and find it so rewarding whenever they bring two like minded people together.

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Your Personal Information Is Safe

At Matchmakers Dating, we protect your personal information. We do not publish our member’s profiles anywhere online or make any of your personal information available on the internet. The matchmaking service we provide is private, discreet and secure. We have one of the largest databases of professional singles within the personal introductions industry.

We cater exclusively for individuals who are aged 25-49. Our sister company, Avenues Dating, provides matchmaking services specifically for those aged 50+.

Taking The Next Step Joining Matchmakers

You may be inclined to think that using a personal matchmaker would be too expensive, but you may be pleasantly surprised to hear that at Matchmakers, we set our fees at very competitive rates to be within the budget of many young professionals.

We have a very experienced team of Membership Advisers available for you to speak with. All of our advisers are very friendly and approachable, and are happy to speak to you about the dating packages we provide. Speak to one of our team today by entering some basic details on our Contact Page, or simply click on the ‘Join Us Today’ button below, to get in touch.

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As a by invitation only member

On occasions, as part of an enhanced client search, we look beyond our own exclusive database for other eligible singles. For this purpose, we can offer complimentary memberships as a By Invitation Only member. If you become a By Invitation Only member, there will be no fee to pay. We will not actively search for matches for you, but we can consider your profile as a match for a fee-paying member.

We guarantee to keep your personal details absolutely private, so your personal information will never be posted on any public website and only ever shared with hand-picked, top quality potential matches. Irrespective of whether a fee is paid, all members, including those offered a free By Invitation Only membership, are carefully interviewed, ID checked and background vetted.

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