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How Matchmaking Works

How Matchmaking Works

Matchmaking takes the guesswork — and the gamble — out of meeting someone. A professional gets to know you, verifies and hand-selects the people you meet, and supports you the whole way. Here's exactly how it works, from first chat to first date.

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From First Chat to First Date

  1. A free, no-obligation chat

    Tell us about you and the kind of person you’re hoping to meet. We’ll explain how we work and answer your questions — and send information to read in your own time if you’d like. No pressure, no cost.

  2. Verification

    Before anyone joins, we confirm ID, age and address, take or receive two recent photos, and run background checks — including residency and any reported fraud or financial crime. It’s the step online dating skips, and the reason our introductions are safe.

  3. Your matchmaking consultation

    A relaxed, in-depth conversation with an experienced matchmaker — usually by video, or in person at your home, a convenient location, or our Warwickshire office. We get to know you properly and talk through exactly what you’re looking for.

  4. Your profile, your approval

    We draw up a detailed profile, including your photos, and only move forward once you’re completely happy with it.

  5. The search begins

    Your matchmaker calls to welcome you, then starts hand-selecting introductions based on real compatibility — not a swipe.

  6. Introductions, feedback & support

    You meet people worth your time. After each date your feedback sharpens the next introduction, and your personal matchmaker is there throughout your membership

Our Backroom Team

After watching the TV shows such as Millionaire Matchmaker, many people feel that using a Personal Matchmaker will be too expensive for them, so joining Matchmakers may well be a pleasant surprise as our costs start at little more than the annualised cost of some of the better quality online dating sites. So taking the next step – joining Matchmakers – is actually well within the budget of most young professionals.

We have the largest Personal Matchmaking team within the country and a really good team of people too. They are passionate about what they do and almost evangelical in their approach to keeping people safe within the jungle that dating has become and ensuring our service standards are the highest within the industry.

Our Backroom Team

After watching the TV shows such as Millionaire Matchmaker, many people feel that using a Personal Matchmaker will be too expensive for them, so joining Matchmakers may well be a pleasant surprise as our costs start at little more than the annualised cost of some of the better quality online dating sites. So taking the next step – joining Matchmakers – is actually well within the budget of most young professionals.

We have the largest Personal Matchmaking team within the country and a really good team of people too. They are passionate about what they do and almost evangelical in their approach to keeping people safe within the jungle that dating has become and ensuring our service standards are the highest within the industry.

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"I wanted to update you about how it has been going between ‘D’ and I over the past few months. I am very grateful to have met ‘D’. I really like him and I find him very easy to talk to. I have found ‘D’ to be very caring and intelligent. We usually speak to each other on the phone twice a week or meet up once a week. As we don’t live too far away from each other, it has been easy to find places to meet up that are easy for us both to get to."

"Our client was really pleased with his dating coaching session and said that he thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you. Fingers crossed that all works out for him."

"Dear Karen, Thank you for being so understanding …your help was truly appreciated"

"Hi Karen, Thank you for your email. I had very good feedback from our client. You made a real difference to her life"

"Karen helped me be clear on what type of man and relationship could suit my busy life and juggling teenagers and a job ! Her perceptive questions and tips improved my dating, and how I decide who to date! I now allow myself to see Dating as Fun, not a chore. I have a choice now, and the pressure is off!! I look forward positively to meeting new men, having a fun date, and possibly look forward to a long term meaningful relationship."

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Your Personal Information Is Safe

At Matchmakers Dating, we protect your personal information. We do not publish online profiles, or make any of your personal information available on the internet, so it is totally private and discreet.

We have one of the largest databases of professionals within the Personal Introductions industry and cater exclusively for people aged 30-49. Our sister company, Avenues Dating, provides a service for those aged 50+.

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As a by invitation only member

On occasions, as part of an enhanced client search, we look beyond our own exclusive database for other eligible singles. For this purpose, we can offer complimentary memberships as a By Invitation Only member. If you become a By Invitation Only member, there will be no fee to pay. We will not actively search for matches for you, but we can consider your profile as a match for a fee-paying member.

We guarantee to keep your personal details absolutely private, so your personal information will never be posted on any public website and only ever shared with hand-picked, top quality potential matches. Irrespective of whether a fee is paid, all members, including those offered a free By Invitation Only membership, are carefully interviewed, ID checked and background vetted.

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