The topic of going for the first kiss with someone you are attracted to is one of those dating topics that is never going to go away. It’s also one of those topics that will stir anxiety in many people. Many people can feel quite anxious about going for the first kiss but this is simply a natural process in the phase of attraction. So when should you go for the first kiss? Should it be on the first date? Well, the simple answer is to trust your gut. Trusting your gut may sound like some kind of psychology fluff but it’s like anything. You trust your gut when you are attracted to someone don’t you? If you feel there is attraction then you know it, you feel it in your gut. This same rule applies for the dreaded when to go for the first kiss topic. Ideally, if you are attracted to someone you’ll want to kiss them and that is completely natural. If it happens on the first date then great, if not, maybe the second.If you are attracted to someone though you’ll feel it in your gut and more often than not this will be a gut feeling. This is also important for other reasons to, like avoiding the dreaded friend zone. And the reality is, it’s up to the man to go for the first kiss; that is just the way it is. So if you feel that attraction in your gut, go for the first kiss on your first date. Get it out of the way and it’ll also let her know that you DEFINITELY see her as more than a friend. And that is crucial if you want to avoid the dreaded friend zone. You could be super compatible with someone, have a great date with them, but if you don’t get sexual then it will all be for nothing. She’ll eventually begin to wonder if she is having doubts about her own level of attraction towards you. So you are the man, you initiate the first kiss. Listen to your gut.