We all know that conflict in a relationship is inevitable at some point. You won’t always agree with your partner on some things, you’ll argue, bicker. This is all very normal in a relationship. However, could conflict in a relationship be a sign of a healthy relationship? It’s quite possible that bickering, arguing is a sign of a healthy relationship. It depends on how you look at it. Here’s why. Say you are in a relationship where you never argue or disagree on anything. Wouldn't that mean you are not really pushing each other's boundaries enough? Not getting to know each other deeply enough? It is inevitable at some point in every relationship you need to explore each other's personalities deeply and at some point negative things are going to come up. That is completely normal. When you do explore each other's personalities deeply, share experiences, conflicts and more you get to know that person better, the good things about them and the bad. It’s all part of the process of getting to know one another better and creating a fulfilling relationship that grows over time. Of course, conflict can actually be detrimental to a relationship but only if it is not handled properly. If your reaction to conflict is to show contempt for your partner, ignore them, humiliate them then of course it’s going to be very negative experience. But if you deal with it maturely as an adult and see it as an opportunity to grow as a couple then it’s a great way to explore each other's personalities a little more. Relationships are always a process of growth. Therefore conflicts are inevitable and will always be a part of a relationship.