The first date is one of those events that can make your stomach churn with a mix of excitement and nerves. For some people it is a more nerve-wracking experience than others. You know the feelings you get, it’s like that crazy mixture of excitement and anxiety. It is even worse depending on the kind of person you are and your own unique circumstances. If you haven’t been out on a date for a while then you are probably going to feel more nervous than more experienced daters. Despite all of this you can still have a great first date, the kind of first date that will leave you begging to see your partner again. The key is to make sure that you are in a fun and relaxed state of mind. If you are feeling relaxed and fun before you even go on your first date then you’ll find that the conversation will flow easier and you’ll also feel more comfortable being yourself. So the first thing you need to make sure before going on your first date is to be in a relaxed and fun state of mind. Try not to think too much in the future about the date. By that don’t go filling your mind with silly what ifs because this will get you in your head too much, and will only end up making you feel anxious.If you are feeling in a relaxed and fun mood then your date will sense that and they will also feel more comfortable and relaxed instantly. From there you will be in a good place from which to enjoy your dates company. You need to ask questions about your date, get to know them. You all know how to have a conversation with someone. If you are already feeling relaxed and in that fun state of mind then you should have no problem finding things to talk about. Being in a fun and relaxed state of mind is the key before going out on any date. A first date will always be a nervous experience but the more relaxed you feel, then the smoother the date will be. You’ll end up having more fun and so will your date. So have fun and enjoy getting back into the dating game.